tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.comments2023-11-03T06:07:07.363-04:00Lori Does MarylandLorihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comBlogger7028125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-1438797562218253952015-10-18T17:40:22.702-04:002015-10-18T17:40:22.702-04:00Belle, which email? johnandlorimd@yahoo.com or jo...Belle, which email? johnandlorimd@yahoo.com or johnandlori@md.metrocast.net ? Switching computers. A.Mess.<br />Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-68640858847893194382015-10-18T17:36:56.969-04:002015-10-18T17:36:56.969-04:00Cristy, first, let me tell me how sorry I am for y...Cristy, first, let me tell me how sorry I am for your losses. I truly, truly am.<br /><br />You are correct in that I've been very lucky to be 'supported' in my grief, when I bring it up. To a degree--that is, at least to my face and in comments on social media.<br /><br />But that was sort of my point...that it's typically *only* when *I* bring it up...when I make mention or tear up, and yes, I very much agree with you that even the surface support (and, much of it is genuine) is better than being silenced (though I get my fair share of that too...most often in the most painful passive-aggressive way.)<br /><br />So that's what I really was trying to get across--if people are willing to throw out there that they are always thinking of me and my dead children, they should not bristle and think behind my back that I am stuck simply because *I* do too. Of course I do! You are right--there is no grief timeline and our losses hurt, regardless of circumstances or gestation.<br /><br />I was truly not trying to scold anyone, and I really am sad that it may have come across that way. Just not sure how to convey what I was thinking, I guess, but the gist was that often the very same people who are 'supporting' me are the ones thinking it's time to go to counseling or what have you and that makes me so weary.<br /><br />Thanks for your honest comment. I really appreciate it, and am very sad that you do not feel more supported in your losses. <3 <3 <3 Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-60151628594606045192015-10-18T15:04:43.147-04:002015-10-18T15:04:43.147-04:00you are so good with words! ;) check your email......you are so good with words! ;) check your email... got a story to tell you... you were the subject of God's remembering yesterday and he sent a customer to me at the retail store I work at to tell me about it! Seriously, I am sending the long winded version to your email. xoxoxbellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13338099802954577987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-60768057738895786852015-10-18T13:05:18.436-04:002015-10-18T13:05:18.436-04:00As someone who is regularly silenced for her losse...As someone who is regularly silenced for her losses, I find myself envious that your grief is even acknowledged. That people are supporting you and offering up love and prayers for those moments when another way or trigger hits. Because so often people assume that grief has a timeline. That we need to get over these losses. And that some losses are more painful than others.<br /><br />So this is a hard post for me. Because as I'm remembering that children I never got to meet, grieving quietly because I know you will be silenced, you're scolding those who are supporting you as you remember your sons.Cristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04317873211902543387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-30615122659574133412015-10-17T21:19:54.399-04:002015-10-17T21:19:54.399-04:00xoxoxoxxoxoxo Sweet friend, I know. You are a gif...xoxoxoxxoxoxo Sweet friend, I know. You are a gift. <3Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-4740356768238951462015-10-17T17:57:03.008-04:002015-10-17T17:57:03.008-04:00I always love you and them, and that's *my* no...I always love you and them, and that's *my* normal.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06178159579764689049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-7959351017848806392015-09-17T15:56:13.662-04:002015-09-17T15:56:13.662-04:00Teachers do sometimes know they are missing one. I...Teachers do sometimes know they are missing one. I used to teach a reception clas and eighteen years ago one of the children I was due to teach was killed in a car crash during the summer holiday. I had only met her once, on her nursery visit to the class, but each September I still think of her. That little child would have been 22 now. Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06408006339464066594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-27533940584687598152015-08-16T15:09:48.034-04:002015-08-16T15:09:48.034-04:00This is beautiful. I am going back to teaching kin...This is beautiful. I am going back to teaching kindergarten this fall after our loss last year. I have often thought of how I will feel teaching kindergarten when my son would have been in that grade (3 years from now). How will I teach all of the little miracles knowing I should have a miracle of my own learning the same things? I would take some 'lessons' home with me for him to do. I would make my class 24 cupcakes for Halloween, and I'd make 24 for his class too. The milestones that aren't are so difficult. Thank you for sharing! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01574232843020302339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-88258232507021734202015-08-02T19:17:16.895-04:002015-08-02T19:17:16.895-04:00<3 <3 Love you friend. So hard some days.<3 <3 Love you friend. So hard some days.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-69393117529723276032015-08-02T19:16:52.529-04:002015-08-02T19:16:52.529-04:00xoxoxoxoxo Hard to believe isn't it???? xoxoxo...xoxoxoxoxo Hard to believe isn't it???? xoxoxoxoLorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-48882666630937761422015-08-02T10:55:31.638-04:002015-08-02T10:55:31.638-04:00Tears in my eyes <3 hugs love youTears in my eyes <3 hugs love youAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04938571634431813537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-71058983804067008342015-07-31T23:46:55.548-04:002015-07-31T23:46:55.548-04:00ooooooh! My heart!!! xoxoxo <3 I do the same th...ooooooh! My heart!!! xoxoxo <3 I do the same thing.... this year i would be teaching her to read, I'd be taking him for his permit test, he's be learning to ride a bike, she's be in that awkward "don't know how to fix my hair but not gonna let mom do it" phase.... ugh, rips the heart out to mark milestones that only we can remember or notice. :( bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13338099802954577987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-33861290984611530842015-07-31T03:39:25.945-04:002015-07-31T03:39:25.945-04:00Oh Lori, this is me. Julia would have started scho...Oh Lori, this is me. Julia would have started school this year and Evan probably would have started next year.Ausmerican Housewife - Creating with Kara Davieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16075297679140718497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-58236184271472016762015-05-01T00:12:21.608-04:002015-05-01T00:12:21.608-04:00Oh, Luke is sooo darling! And big! There are no ...Oh, Luke is sooo darling! And big! There are no words anyone can say to take away the fear. I'm in that place of fear now too and there are NO WORDS. I will pray for you and Luke and hope that your next post, whether next week or next year, will be a very happy one :)Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12316978989809741699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-20526043243090149392015-04-30T10:51:46.354-04:002015-04-30T10:51:46.354-04:00Oh love, I know, I know. I am the one who wakes in...Oh love, I know, I know. I am the one who wakes in the middle of the night and places a hand on his chest. I am the one who has far too much imagination when it comes to "danger". And although I don't share your faith I DO send my love.Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-75302009727970946332015-04-30T10:43:03.758-04:002015-04-30T10:43:03.758-04:00Lifting you up in prayer - sending you lots of lov...Lifting you up in prayer - sending you lots of love.<br /><br />On the blog issue, I also don't blog regularly, but I kind of feel like its on my on-line diary, so whenever I do write, I think its good for me. I hope that someday, Sophie will be able to read my journey and understand a little bit of what my life was like...sort of see me like a human, not just a mom.<br /><br />Thinking of you today and sending you lots of love!!!Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05823767091787001229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-62445272182661246722015-04-30T05:57:32.488-04:002015-04-30T05:57:32.488-04:00Hugs and prayers <3 once again your words ring ...Hugs and prayers <3 once again your words ring true to my heart. I thank you for sharing yours <3Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04938571634431813537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-89308821329917216522015-04-29T23:18:17.966-04:002015-04-29T23:18:17.966-04:00Praying, friend!Praying, friend!Keri Kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09076593674012130856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-74403294593315277762015-04-29T23:16:52.021-04:002015-04-29T23:16:52.021-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Keri Kitchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09076593674012130856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-39068532804844963942015-04-29T23:06:43.875-04:002015-04-29T23:06:43.875-04:00Always praying. Always.Always praying. Always.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06178159579764689049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-87873706452563536462015-04-02T22:47:42.308-04:002015-04-02T22:47:42.308-04:00Interesting. I might try out those soda alternativ...Interesting. I might try out those soda alternatives for my son the next time we're in the States. Thanks for sharing!R.A.Gudinohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10794924739133958763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-53508955757602566332015-03-17T11:49:53.894-04:002015-03-17T11:49:53.894-04:00
i want to thank Dr Usunorbu of drusunorbuspellhom...<br />i want to thank Dr Usunorbu of drusunorbuspellhome@gmail.com for making me happy in getting my ex lover back after broken up with me last month,i contacted this spell Dr for help and his work was guarantee that i was going to get my ex lover back after 24 hours, although i doubted his word but i decided to give it a try by cooperating with his terms, i did not only get back my ex lover after the spell, but i was also promoted in my place of work, i thank this powerful and trust dr who helped me found joy in my relationship, and me and my ex who is now my lover again is getting married on the 6th of next month, i am so happy that atleast i am with my lover again after all the pains and stress i being through when he first broke with me, i thank Dr Usunorbu (drusunorbuspellhome@gmail.com) i am so so happy i love my lover so much that i was almost end my life when he told me that it was over between both of us, but i thank the spell caster send by God in heaven to help his people, i am grateful Dr Usunorbu i am proud to know these spell Dr i am happy that he help me with my problems, for making my life see joy and happiness again, i am happy for his kindness, i am so happy,so i decided to share my store on the net so that people will see the good which Dr Usunorbu of (drusunorbuspellhome@gmail.com) has done for me in my life, and if you are out there passing through any condition, or having bad time with your lover,or your lover has broke up with you, do not think than to contact these same spell caster on his email address(drusunorbuspellhome@gmail.com) and you will consider your problem solve. Thanks Dr Usunorbu and i pray you will live long forever because you are so kind and powerful, this is my story from Lydia Claire From Texas United State Of America<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01653312387085078055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-86929771046810934442015-02-04T23:28:15.128-05:002015-02-04T23:28:15.128-05:00i want to thank Dr Usunorbu of drusunorbuspellhome...i want to thank Dr Usunorbu of drusunorbuspellhome@gmail.com for making me happy in getting my ex lover back after broken up with me last month,i contacted this spell Dr for help and his work was guarantee that i was going to get my ex lover back after 24 hours, although i doubted his word but i decided to give it a try by cooperating with his terms, i did not only get back my ex lover after the spell, but i was also promoted in my place of work, i thank this powerful and trust dr who helped me found joy in my relationship, and me and my ex who is now my lover again is getting married on the 6th of next month, i am so happy that atleast i am with my lover again after all the pains and stress i being through when he first broke with me, i thank Dr Usunorbu (drusunorbuspellhome@gmail.com) i am so so happy i love my lover so much that i was almost end my life when he told me that it was over between both of us, but i thank the spell caster send by God in heaven to help his people, i am grateful Dr Usunorbu i am proud to know these spell Dr i am happy that he help me with my problems, for making my life see joy and happiness again, i am happy for his kindness, i am so happy,so i decided to share my store on the net so that people will see the good which Dr Usunorbu of (drusunorbuspellhome@gmail.com) has done for me in my life, and if you are out there passing through any condition, or having bad time with your lover,or your lover has broke up with you, do not think than to contact these same spell caster on his email address(drusunorbuspellhome@gmail.com) and you will consider your problem solve. Thanks Dr Usunorbu and i pray you will live long forever because you are so kind and powerful, this is my story from Lydia Claire From Texas United State Of AmericaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01653312387085078055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-60905596053727721162014-12-29T11:28:18.275-05:002014-12-29T11:28:18.275-05:00Well said! Thanks for sharing!Well said! Thanks for sharing!Caroline @ In Due Timehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16261569299914107796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273909430922264674.post-38858899378783282972014-12-01T07:07:40.286-05:002014-12-01T07:07:40.286-05:00Lori, I'm so sorry for your loss of your sweet...Lori, I'm so sorry for your loss of your sweet Matthew. Five years without him, five years of tears & longing. As a loss mom myself, I also understand your Mother's request. I want to be buried as close to my Meredith as possible. Even though I have 3 Rainbows, my arms will forever long to hold her, just one time. I know I will in Heaven. May the Lord comfort you as only He can.Sarita Boyettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05114918446765517683noreply@blogger.com